give someone a back talk
A:But you should be considerate to the kids, it's their nature to play.
A:你该体贴体贴孩子们，爱玩是他们的天性。B:What I cannot put up with is that they may even give me a back talk.
B：我受不了的是他们居然和我顶嘴。
A:Of course it's not polite of them, but sometimes you should put things the other way round and try to understand them.
A:他们是有些不礼貌，可有时你也应该换个角度想想，试试去理解他们。