There are always news about how many betrothal gifts a man has to prepare to get a bride in China. In fact, this is not only happened in China, many less developed countries also have the same problem. Though the marriage is about two families but only two people in love, but I can't agree that the groom have to paid overload to the bride's family to get marry.
在中国,关于一个男的要准备多少聘礼才能娶到新娘的新闻总是层出不穷。实际上,这不仅仅发生在中国,许多落后国家也有相同的问题。尽管婚姻是两个家庭之间的事而不仅仅关于两个相爱的人,但是我不同意新郎必须要付超额的聘礼给新娘家才能结婚。
The betrothal gifts in the old time of China were given to the parents in law by the groom to thank them for having been taking care the bride, and after being marry, the bride would have very few chances to come back to see them. So the betrothal gift was also called “bride price”. But this is not suitable for today’s situation. The young couple will always visit the parents and support them, it is unfair for the man to pay much money to the parents in law anymore.
聘礼在中国的旧时是新郎给岳父母用来感谢他们对新娘的养育之恩,而结婚之后,新娘便很少有机会回娘家看完他们。所以聘礼也被叫做“卖女钱”。但是这不适用于现代的情况。年轻小两口还是时常看完父母赡养他们,这时男人还要给岳父母付很多钱就很不公平。
On the other hand, the bride’s parents requirement too much bride price would rise the conflict between two families and then hurt feelings of the young couple. The marriage would come to a crisis.
另外,新娘父母要求太多的卖女钱会升起两个家庭之间的矛盾,继而伤年轻两口子的感情。婚姻会陷入危机。
Two people get marry should be based on love, not doing business. They have their own life to go on, the parents should give them the best blessings, not obstacles. The sound betrothal gifts and enough love, the marriage will have a wonderful start.
两个人结婚要建立在爱情的基础上,而不是做交易。他们有自己的生活要过,父母应该给他们最好的祝福,而不是障碍。合理的聘礼和足够的爱,婚姻会有一个美好的开始。
结婚聘礼Betrothal Gifts
英语社
人气:1.17W
相关文章:
- 年中国大型银行盈利增长趋缓 Profit growth flattens for China’s biggest lenders
- 英语笑话:The Nice Wedding Gift 漂亮的结婚礼物
- 礼拜几买机票最便宜 To Find Cheap Flights the Day (Kind of) Matters
- 名人婚礼防泄密的那些招数 How Celebrities Keep Their Weddings a Secret
- 港式婚姻 已婚却分居 Hong Kong cost of living forces married couples into separate beds
- AbouttheFinalDecision关于应聘结果
- 结婚的成本 The cost of marriage
- 什么时候结婚最合适 When is the Right Time to Get Married?
- 大学生结婚好吗?Is It Good For College Students to Get Married?
- 大学生应不应该允许结婚? Whether College Students Should Be Allowed to Get Married
热门推荐
- 1苹果与FBI之争并未画上句号 Apple is standing up for its rights, not thwarting the FBI
- 2The english we speak(BBC教学)第275期:To fall at the first hurdle 倒在第一关
- 3The english we speak(BBC教学)第164期:The boot is on the other foot 情况发生逆转.jpg
- 4美语情景对话 第1254期:What do you think of arranged marriage? 你怎么看包办婚礼?
- 5大学生应该结婚吗? Should collage students get merried?
- 6大学生应该结婚吗:Should collage students get merried
- 7英语小笑话:The Nice Wedding Gift(漂亮的结婚礼物)
- 8英文小笑话:The Nice Wedding Gift(漂亮的结婚礼物)
- 9aircraft using in flight the features of both aeroplane and rotorcraft是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 10偷礼物的妈妈 A Mother Who Stole the Gift
猜你喜欢
- 1classification of obligations that are callable by the creditor是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 2Athen's Convention Relating to the Carriage of Passengers and Their Luggages by Sea 1974是什么意思、英
- 3aircrafts using in flight the features of both aeroplane and是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 4bottom flap for automatic discharging of weigh receptacle of filling balances是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 5The english we speak(BBC教学)第97期:Take the weight off your feet 休息
- 6also for(referring to port or ports to be touched by the ship)是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 7美语情景对话 第1230期:When is the best time to marry? 最佳结婚年龄
- 8经合组织下调全球增长预期 OECD cuts global growth forecasts as shifts in China hit trade
- 9布拉特被罚8年禁足 Eight year football ban completes Blatter’s downfall
- 10The english we speak(BBC教学)第276期:One good turn deserves another 礼尚往来
- 11The english we speak(BBC教学)第192期:Food for thought 引人深思
- 12结婚的花费 The Expense of Marriage
- 13The english we speak(BBC教学)第265期:Six of one, half a dozen of the other 半斤八两
- 14格林童话:the Gifts of the Little People小人儿的礼物
- 15The english we speak(BBC教学)第326期:A different kettle of fish 截然不同的事
今日热门
- 1结婚聘礼的谈判技巧
- 2(borrowing venture that applies for a loan must) satisfy the conditions for a loan是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 3追忆短暂的英国计算机创新 Nostalgia for the shortlived era of British computer innovation
- 4聘礼
- 5梦见结婚,婚礼
- 6人一定要结婚吗 Should We all Need to Get Married?
- 7结婚婚礼邀请函
- 8婚礼style:这些结婚照给你的无限创意
- 9婚礼新娘结婚礼仪
- 10bear responsibility for the nonfulfilment of contractual obligations是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
更多推荐
- 1韩语每日一词:번식的含义
- 2草莓的英文单词strawberry拼写
- 3专用电视是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 4意大利童话故事阅读:十二头牛
- 5节约用水的措施英语短文
- 6声频提示通道是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 7不稳定的热传导是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 8双语美文:曾有一双手救了我的命
- 9愚人节英语短语
- 10怎样才能突出英语作文中的重点
- 11工作字幕是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 12外研版七年级上册英语Module1单元练习试卷及答案
- 13位置控制是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释提纲
- 14advanced multipurpose radar是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释
- 15接触干燥是什么意思、英文翻译及中文解释